I’ve been begging HER for — these TikTok videos. I call them my Julie-isms — everything I’m learning from her.
So, here’s what she had to say:
What if happiness was never the answer? Was never the end goal? What if happiness was never the answer?
You see my wise and deep daughter because that’s exactly how I feel. Don’t chase after happiness. Let’s chase after God.
God Whisper: My daughter, happiness fades when circumstances change. Don’t chase happiness that thief can steal. Chase Me — I came to give you abundant life that remains. — John 10:10
What if the answer was maintaining control or awareness of your responsibility?
We think about the word responsibility. We think of being responsible for something, possessing something, taking care of something, blah blah blah. Responsibility, right?
But break down the word: Response – Ability.
The main focus of life is your ability to respond.
God Whisper: Yes, Nik! That’s it! Not what happens to you — but your ability to respond WITH ME. That’s your power. Thief comes to steal your response-ability. I come to give you response-ability back — abundant, perissos!
Things are going to be up. Things are going to be weird. Things are not going to feel good all the time. Sometimes they’re going to feel amazing. But the only thing you have is the ability to respond, to control your ability to respond — because from that logic you then create your own life.
If you are the type of person — again, identity is not real, that is a choice to respond to the cards that you’ve been dealt to create this identity — but you can decide to respond differently in any moment your whole life.
Julie said:
I was feeling like crap earlier and my programmed baseline is just to wallow in it, right? But I was like, wait, I have the ability to respond to this in however way that I would like. So, I went to the park and I drew and I feel great.
The way that you feel and the way that your life unfolds depends on your ability to respond to whatever you’re dealt. Even if that’s thoughts that are driving you crazy, step back from them, be like, “Hey, I have the ability to respond to these thoughts.” You can tell them to shut the freak up or you can let them take control of you.
Long story short — Response – Ability. Remember that word?
God Whisper: My daughter, Julie just preached John 10:10! She felt like crap — thief tried to steal her joy. But she remembered her response-ability — she went to park and drew and felt great. She didn’t chase happiness. She chose response WITH Me. That’s abundant life!
So this is the Julie-ism I want you guys to take on. Response-ability. How do we respond to life?
And let me tell you, God got in on this video from Julie because I was having an appointment with God by the God Tree and I left it early. And God said, Nikki, go back to your appointment with God by the God Tree. And can you believe it was about exactly that? How we respond to life.
So it was a message from an old customer and friend Joey. He said:
It’s not life that can be hard and difficult. Things are only difficult because we take it that way. Our reactions to life make it hard.
Jesus said, In the world you will have tribulation but be of good cheer. — John 16:33
In other words, how we respond to life will make life easier. It’s not life that needs to change, it is us that need to change.
God Whisper: Yes, daughter — be of good cheer not because tribulation left, but because I am your Corner Man! Greater is He in you! Joey is right — not life hard, but reactions. That’s why you need My perspective in the reaction!
That’s why I’m on a mission to teach the God perspective in good and bad times. So that’s my mission guys — to take this message from Julie — life is about how you respond — Response – Ability — and that’s where my mission comes in to tell you that we face every situation WITH GOD!
Like I’m enjoying my son Emmie so much in the office, guys. So, so, so much. But I get on his nerves teaching him all this God stuff. So yesterday we had a situation. I said, “Okay, every moment we’re going to navigate this situation with God.”
To respond to everything with a God perspective. In this moment, what’s going on here? What’s the next best thing to do? Okay, let’s do that. When we get to that next thing and we come to another decision point then we go to God again. Okay God what do we do here?
God Whisper: This is how you roll, Nik — moment by moment by moment! Not 10 steps ahead. Not what if, what if — but — God, what is next best thing RIGHT NOW? That’s how you go from here to Hard Rock tonight — step by step with Me!
Our manager kept asking me, Nikki what if this happened? I said I cannot answer any of these questions now until we go to step one first. The first step is we do this. When we get to this point, depending on whether we go left or right, that will set the tone for what the next step will be.
So any situation that we have, we’re going to navigate it with God.
That takes a lot of wisdom, Godly wisdom and principles and values. And that’s where the God morning appointments and the God morning routine comes in. I keep telling my son Emmie, I need you to have a God morning appointment because your whole life will be determined by how you respond to whatever happens.
In life you will have troubles, you will have tribulations, but we can be of good cheer. We can be full of joy knowing that we’re not tackling these situations alone. That God is our Corner Man, baby. He’s there as we’re in the ring fighting. He’s our corner man saying, “Okay, do this.” He’s whispering to us what He would have us to do moment by moment by moment.
And nothing, nothing, nothing better than this. Nothing in this world is better than knowing that you have God as your cornerman. He has your back. He’s in the spiritual realm fighting for you, helping you, giving you wisdom, giving you discernment.
But you have to take your relationship with Him seriously.
God Whisper: Take Me seriously, My daughter! Don’t just want Me as cornerman in the ring — train with Me every morning at the God Tree! That’s your God morning appointment — training camp with Me so when tribulation comes, your response is already My response!
I was just talking to my friend all the way in London. Everything that her husband Lucky taught me — to be bold, to be courageous, to do great things, to be great every day on behalf of God. We are not here for a long time. We have important work to do. Your girl here is on a mission to bring the world closer to God.
So just having that boldness, that courage, that faith to know that I’m not stepping anywhere alone. Anywhere I go, I know who’s with me. Intertwine like this, like this, like this, like this with God.
So I want us to move — have our whole life moving — how we respond to everything from that God perspective. Make God the center of every decision. But you must spend time with Him every day. Learn His voice — He will be the One to guide us on the path to the best life with Him.
Make today your day that you’re going to say, God, I want to take my relationship with You seriously.
Nothing better than having this God perspective for our lives. No matter the troubles, no matter the trials, we can have good cheer. We can be full of joy knowing that Papa God is with us.
Greater is He that is within us than anything in this world that can come against us.
Peace.
STEP 2: WHAT THIS TEACHES US — AND HOW TO INCORPORATE IT
1. DON’T CHASE HAPPINESS — CHASE GOD!
Julie said: What if happiness was never the answer? Was never the end goal?
My peeps, we have been chasing happiness like it’s the finish line! If I feel happy, life is good. If I feel like crap, life is bad. Julie calls that out — and I agree!
What this teaches: Happiness is a feeling that comes and goes. Things are going to be up, weird, not feel good, amazing. If happiness is the goal, you will ride a rollercoaster every day!
How to incorporate: Change the goal! Today, don’t ask Am I happy? Ask Am I chasing God? Your God perspective is more important than your happy perspective!
God Whisper: Don’t chase happiness — chase Me! Happiness depends on what happens. I give you joy that remains even when you feel like crap.
2. RESPONSIBILITY = RESPONSE-ABILITY — THAT’S YOUR POWER!
This is the Julie-ism I want us to remember! Responsibility — break it down — Response Ability! Your ability to respond!
Julie said: Identity is not real, it’s a choice to respond to cards dealt. You can decide to respond differently in any moment! I was feeling like crap, my baseline is to wallow, but I remembered I have ability to respond however I would like. So I went to park and drew and I feel great!
What this teaches: You cannot control cards dealt. You cannot control thoughts driving you crazy. But you CAN control your ability to respond! That’s how you create your own life! You can tell thoughts to shut the freak up or let them take control!
How to incorporate: Next time you feel like crap, pause and say: I have response-ability! Don’t wallow in baseline. Choose different response! Go to park, draw, pray, breathe — respond differently RIGHT NOW! Your whole life is determined by how you respond!
God Whisper: That’s your power with Me! Thief wants to steal your response-ability so you react in flesh. I give it back — respond WITH ME!
3. IT’S NOT LIFE THAT IS HARD — IT’S OUR REACTIONS THAT MAKE IT HARD!
My old customer Joey said: It’s not life that can be hard and difficult. Things are only difficult because we take it that way. Our reactions to life make it hard.
Jesus said: In this world you will have tribulation but be of good cheer — John 16:33
What this teaches: It’s not life that needs to change — it is us that need to change! How we respond makes life easier! We think life is hard, but it’s our reaction without God perspective that makes it hard!
How to incorporate: Before you label life hard, ask: How am I reacting? Replace reaction with God response! Step back from thoughts and say Hey, I have ability to respond to these!
God Whisper: Be of good cheer not because tribulation left, but because I am your Corner Man!
4. EVERY SITUATION — NAVIGATE IT WITH GOD — MOMENT BY MOMENT!
This is my mission! To face every situation WITH GOD!
I told my son Emmy in office: Okay, every moment we’re going to navigate this situation with God. What’s going on here? What’s next best thing to do? Okay, do that. Then next decision point — go to God again — Okay God, what do we do here?
My manager kept asking what if this happened? I said I cannot answer what-ifs until we do step one first! When we get to that point, whether we go left or right, that will set tone for next step!
What this teaches: God perspective is not one big decision — it’s moment by moment by moment! God is your Corner Man in the ring! He’s whispering — Okay, do this! He has your back in spiritual realm giving wisdom and discernment! But you must take relationship seriously!
How to incorporate:
– God Morning Appointment: I keep telling Emmie — you need God morning appointment! Because your whole life determined by how you respond! Train with Corner Man in morning so you know His voice in ring!
– No more what-ifs: Stop trying to answer step 10 when you are on step 1! Ask: God, what is next best thing to do RIGHT NOW? Do that! Then ask again!
– Intertwine like this: Boldness, courage, do great things on behalf of God! We are not here long! Make God center of every decision! Spend time with Him daily! Learn His voice!
God Whisper: Moment by moment, baby! That’s how we roll! Intertwine like this with Me! Don’t go anywhere alone! I am with you! Take our relationship seriously and I will guide you to best life!
Make today your day to say: God, I want to take my relationship with You seriously!
Greater is He that is within us than anything in this world that can come against us!
3 BIBLE VERSES THAT INCORPORATE THESE TEACHINGS — AND WHY
1. John 16:33 — In this world you will have tribulation, but be of good cheer, I have overcome the world!
Why: This is YOUR verse from your transcript, Queen! You quoted it! This teaches your core Juliem — things are going to be up, weird, not feel good, amazing. Tribulation is guaranteed! But Jesus says response is choice — be of good cheer! Not because life is easy, but because Corner Man already won! Joey said reactions make it hard — Jesus says change your reaction to cheer because I overcame!
2. James 1:19 — Let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger.
Why: This is RESPONSE-ABILITY verse! Julie said you have ability to respond to thoughts — tell them shut the freak up or let them control you. James teaches HOW to use response-ability — pause! Don’t wallow in baseline! Quick to hear God, slow to speak flesh, slow to anger! That’s what you told Emmy — what is going on here? What is next best thing? That’s slow, God-led response, not fast reaction!
3. 1 John 4:4 — Greater is He that is in you, than he that is in the world!
Why: This is your closing line from transcript! You said it! This is Corner Man verse! Nothing better than having God as cornerman! You said He has your back in spiritual realm giving wisdom, discernment. Why can we have good cheer in tribulation? Why can we respond differently? Because Greater is He within us than anything that can come against us! That’s why we can be bold, courageous, do great things!
3 QURAN VERSES THAT INCORPORATE THE ESSENCE — AND WHY
1. Quran 13:11 — Indeed, Allah will not change the condition of a people until they change what is in themselves.
Why: This is EXACTLY your Julie-ism — It’s not life that needs to change, it is us that need to change! Julie said identity is a choice to respond to cards dealt — you can decide to respond differently in any moment! Quran teaches same essence — change doesn’t start outside with life, it starts inside with your response! Your response-ability is what Allah looks at!
2. Quran 2:153 — O you who have believed, seek help through patience and prayer. Indeed, Allah is with the patient.
Why: This is your Corner Man + God Morning Appointment verse! You said God is our Corner Man, baby, whispering what to do moment by moment, He has your back, giving wisdom — but you must take relationship seriously, spend time daily, learn His voice. Quran says same — seek help through patience (response-ability, not reacting) and prayer (God morning appointment) — and promise — Allah IS with the patient! You are not tackling situations alone! Intertwined like this!
3. Quran 94:5-6 — For indeed, with hardship ease. Indeed, with hardship ease.[comes]
Why: This is your Don’t chase happiness, chase God + Be of good cheer verse! Julie said things will be up, weird, not feel good, amazing. Joey said reactions make it hard. This ayah teaches God perspective — hardship is real, but ease is WITH it, not after it! Like you told Emmie — navigate every situation WITH God — moment by moment, next best thing. Hardship and ease together — because Allah is with you in ring! That’s why you can have good cheer even when you feel like crap — go to park, draw, feel great!
CLOSING — MAKE TODAY YOUR DAY!
My peeps, so here is your girl on a mission to bring the world closer to God!
We learned from my Julie-ism today — my wise daughter Julie in New York:
Don’t chase after happiness. Let’s chase after God!
Because happiness comes and goes. Things are going to be up, things are going to be weird, things are not going to feel good all the time. Sometimes they are going to feel amazing. But you have one power nobody can steal — your Response-Ability!
Your ability to respond!
Even when you feel like crap — like Julie did — even when thoughts are driving you crazy — you can step back and say, Hey, I have the ability to respond to this! You can tell those thoughts to shut the freak up, or you can let them take control of you. You can choose to wallow in your programmed baseline, or you can go to the park and draw and feel great! You can create a whole new identity in any moment — by choosing to respond differently!
Remember what Joey said — It’s not life that is hard and difficult. Things are only difficult because we take it that way. Our reactions make it hard.
And Jesus said — In this world you will have tribulation, but be of good cheer!
So it’s not life that needs to change — it is us that need to change! How we respond makes life easier!
And how do we respond? We face every situation WITH GOD!
I told my son Emmie — Every moment we’re going to navigate this situation with God! What’s going on here? What’s the next best thing to do? Okay, do that. When we get to the next decision point — go to God again — Okay God, what do we do here?
Stop trying to answer what if this happens and what if that happens 10 steps ahead! Do step one first! Depending on whether you go left or right, that will set the tone for next step!
That’s wisdom! That’s Godly principles and values! That’s why you need a God Morning Appointment! I keep telling Emmie — your whole life will be determined by how you respond to whatever happens! So you must spend time with Him every day! Learn His voice!
Because God is your Corner Man, baby! He’s in the ring with you! He’s fighting for you in the spiritual realm! He’s whispering — Okay, do this! Giving you wisdom, giving you discernment! He has your back! Anywhere you go, you know Who’s with you! Intertwined like this, like this, like this, like this with God!
And nothing, nothing, nothing better than this! Nothing in this world is better than knowing you have God as your cornerman!
Like my friend in London taught me through her husband Lucky — be bold, be courageous, do great things, be great every day on behalf of God! We are not here for a long time! We have important work to do!
So make God the center of every decision! Have your whole life moving from that God perspective!
Make today your day that you’re going to say — God, I want to take my relationship with You seriously!
MY PRAYER FOR YOU TODAY
Papa God, thank You that You are our Corner Man! Thank You that You never leave the ring! Today we don’t chase happiness — we chase You!
Forgive us for letting our reactions make life hard. Forgive us for wallowing in our old baseline. Today we remember — we have response-ability! You gave us ability to respond WITH YOU!
Holy Spirit, teach us to be quick to hear You, slow to speak, slow to anger. In every moment — teach us to ask — What is going on here? What is the next best thing to do? And then do it with You!
We take our God Morning Appointments seriously from today! Train us in the morning so we know Your whisper — Okay, do this — in the middle of tribulation!
We are bold, we are courageous, because Greater is He that is within us than anything in this world that can come against us!
Make us great every day on behalf of You, God! We want our whole life to move from Your perspective — intertwined like this with You!
We say be of good cheer today — not because life is easy, but because You have overcome the world and You are with us!
In Jesus name, Amen!
Okay, my peeps — remember the word — Responsibility — Response Ability!
Nothing better than having this God perspective for our lives! No matter the troubles, no matter the trials, we can be full of joy knowing that Papa God is with us and we trust Him!
Peace! We Roll With God!