That’s the question I asked someone yesterday.
He didn’t say “because I like the taste.” He said, “This is how I numb the thoughts in my head.” He was carrying shame from something that happened years ago — years ago — and the only way he knew how to make the thoughts stop was to drink.
And I looked at him and said, “That’s the devil! That’s not you. That’s his voice you are hearing in your mind telling you to carry around guilt and shame and telling you why you should walk around down and depressed.”
The devil tells us thoughts to judge us, to defeat us, and to depress us.
But God? God gives us new mercies every morning. Every single day we can wake up to God’s love, compassion, and faithfulness. Fresh. Brand new.
My friend David beautifully explained this faithfulness from Lamentations 3:21-24:
THE FAITHFULNESS OF GOD – DAVID’S PORTION
“No one has the plan on how to wake up the next morning. No one has a plan on how or which part of his body will be functional the next day. No one has a plan or knows how to ignite or turn on life support for any organ in the system. And so therefore no one has the power to determine whether he or she will even see the light of the next day.
So what am I saying? Every single morning that you wake up you must know that that is the first token of God’s faithfulness towards you. Whether you love him or not, you believe in him or not, doesn’t count. He has taken the first step for that day to show you that I love you, to tell you that I care.
Even though you may not deserve it but here you are for that day. Here you are today and here you’ve been for all this while. God’s faithfulness brought you to that particular point where you are. So God has taken the first step to show you his mercies, to show you his compassion, to show you his kindness, to show you his love for that day. This is not to be taken for granted.
If you look at verse twenty two, it says the Lord’s loving kindness indeed never ceases for his compassion never fails. This is not something that is within our power however we benefit from it.
So I want to encourage us this morning that no matter the situation, know it that God’s love for you for that day has already been established. Have it at the back of your mind, front of your mind, have it at every single thought of your heart that God’s love for you for that day has already been established. He has taken the first step, he’s opened his arms already for you and that is why you are and that is why you’re breathing, that is why you are alive, that is why you’re here.
So my brothers, my sisters, my encouragement for you is take advantage of this faithfulness, take advantage of this love, take advantage of this compassion and walk in them.”
WHAT I’M TEACHING BOTH MEN AND WOMEN
I’m teaching you that the loudest battle in your life is not outside of you, it’s inside your mind. It’s the battle of voices.
Many of us are not drinking alcohol, but we are all drinking something to numb the thoughts.
For some men, it’s alcohol. For some women, it’s overworking, over-eating, over-scrolling, over-controlling everything because you feel out of control inside.
The devil’s voice replays what happened 5 years ago, 10 years ago, like it happened this morning and says you should be ashamed.
God’s voice says: I removed your sin as far as the east is from the west. You are new this morning. Begin again.
God Whisper: The devil replays yesterday to ruin today. I renew My mercy today to redeem your tomorrow.
HOW TO LIVE THIS EVERY DAY
1. Start With The First Token. Before you grab your phone, say out loud: “God, thank You for the first token of Your faithfulness. I am breathing, so I am loved. Your love for me today is already established.”
For men: You don’t have to earn your worth today. You woke up worthy because He initiated.
For women: You don’t have to hustle to be loved today. You woke up already held.
2. Do The Voice Check. All day long, ask: Who is talking right now? If the thought judges you, defeats you, depresses you, tells you to hide and carry shame — that’s the devil. Don’t drink that thought. If the thought says, “Come as you are. I love you. We can begin again” — that’s God. Walk in that.
3. Walk It Out Daily. Walking is daily, not one time. Instead of numbing with a drink, take a 10-minute walk and pray, “God, show me Your compassion for me right now.” Tell one safe person the truth instead of hiding it. Instead of numbing by controlling everyone else, pause and ask, “God, what have You already provided for me for today?” You have what you need for THIS day.
God Whisper: I didn’t give you tomorrow’s strength. I gave you today’s. And today is enough.
4. End With Hope. Lamentations 3:24 says, “The Lord is my portion, says my soul, therefore I have hope in Him.” Before you sleep, put your hand on your heart and say: “Lord, You are my portion. You are enough for today. I have hope in You for tomorrow.”
5 VERSES THAT HOLD THIS MESSAGE
1. Lamentations 3:22-23 — “Through the Lord’s mercies we are not consumed… They are new every morning; Great is Your faithfulness.” Why: Your breath this morning is proof God took the first step to love you today before you did anything to earn it.
2. Psalm 103:12 — “As far as the east is from the west, so far has He removed our transgressions from us.” Why: God doesn’t replay what happened years ago — He removed it. If He isn’t holding it against you, you don’t have to hold it against yourself.
3. Romans 8:1 — “Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.” Why: This is how you know whose voice you’re hearing. The devil condemns, God invites you to begin again.
4. 2 Corinthians 10:5 — “We take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.” Why: You can’t stop thoughts from coming, but you can stop drinking them. Arrest the shame-thought and replace it with mercy.
5. John 10:10 — “The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.” Why: The devil wants to steal today by making you numb yesterday. Jesus came to give you full, breathing, present life TODAY.
THE SOUL PRAYER
Father, in the name of Jesus, we come before You right now for the one who is drinking to stop thinking.
For the man who told me yesterday that he drinks to numb the thoughts in his head. For the woman who doesn’t drink from a bottle, but drinks from worry, from overworking, from scrolling, from trying to be in control because she feels so out of control inside.
Lord, You see the shame they are carrying from something that happened years ago. Years ago, Father — but the voice is still so loud today.
And right now, in Jesus’ name, we take authority over that voice. That is not Your voice. That voice that tells him to carry guilt, to hold shame, to walk down and depressed — we call it what it is. That is the devil. That is the accuser. And we tell him to leave now. You have no portion here.
Father, speak louder. Let them hear YOUR voice.
Your voice says: I love you. I have not left you. My loving kindness toward you never ceases. My compassions for you never fail. They are new every morning.
Thank You, God, that no one has the power to wake themselves up. No one has a plan for which organ will work. But You, You took the first step this morning. You turned on the life support. You gave breath. You opened Your arms before their feet hit the floor.
So Father, for my brother who feels like he messed up too badly, tell him again: Here you are. Here you are today. My faithfulness brought you here. You are not forgotten.
For my sister who feels like she has to earn love today, tell her again: My love for you today is already established. Have it at the back of your mind, front of your mind, in every single thought of your heart — I already love you for today.
Father, we receive it. We don’t take it for granted. We take advantage of this faithfulness. We take advantage of this love. We take advantage of this compassion and we choose to walk in it today.
Teach us to know the difference between voices. When the devil says, “Remember what you did,” let us hear You say, “I remember mercy. I have removed that sin as far as the east is from the west.”
Lord, we don’t want to numb the pain anymore. We want to feel Your healing. We don’t want to drink shame anymore. We want to drink mercy. New mercy. This morning’s mercy.
So breathe on us fresh. Give us what we need for this particular day. Not tomorrow’s strength, but today’s.
And for the one who asked me yesterday, “Why are you drinking?” — let today be the day he asks, “Why am I still carrying what God already forgave?”
We lay the bottle down. We lay the shame down. We lay the guilt down.
And we pick up hope. For You are our portion, says our soul, therefore we have hope in You.
In Jesus’ mighty, merciful, morning-by-morning faithful name, Amen.
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