THERE IS FULLNESS OF JOY IN GOD’S PRESENCE, BABY!

That’s my testimony! I can’t get over the God wink in my Jesus Calling devotional this morning. I opened up to this verse:

“You have made known to me the paths of life; you will fill me with joy in your presence.” – Acts 2:28

But not feeling like a high five from God, I immediately randomly opened to another page where God confirmed this very verse, written as if God is speaking to us:

“It also helps you to enjoy Me; IN MY PRESENCE IS FULLNESS OF JOY (Wink! Wink!).”

And God didn’t stop there! Fast forward to me getting to work some hours later, I have a ritual where I connect with God on our family’s website before beginning work. At 49 minutes past the hour, I went to page 49 and look what showed up:

“I’m feeling so close to Him (God) now, and I want us to pray to Him all day. Every day. Allowing Him to be the guide and center of our lives. Today, He is nudging me to get back on my discipline game after I’ve been in such a rut. God, anything to please You, let me learn. God, I’m enjoying You all day. Every day! THERE IS FULLNESS OF JOY IN GOD’S PRESENCE! (HUGE SMILE) Don’t miss out!”

And that’s my prayer, that you all don’t miss out on this beautiful life adventure with God. NOTHING BETTER THAN WALKING THROUGH LIFE WITH GOD (ONLY THE CREATOR OF THE ENTIRE UNIVERSE!) AS OUR CONSTANT COMPANION!!! He is with us! It’s just for us to invite Him into our lives, making Him our top priority and focus, living with one foot in heaven, having continuous conversations with God, while also tackling all our issues with His wisdom and direction.

Make sure you are devoting some time each day to learning His voice—whether through reading, listening, or prayer—so you can grow closer to Him and strengthen your relationship with Him. God is pretty talkative!

BE GREAT EVERY DAY…WE ROLL WITH GOD!

THIS LOVE FROM GOD IS SERIOUS!!!

I feel blessed by the attention I receive from Him. It started yesterday when I saw an old email from my friend Marcie, and I was unsure whether to reach out. This morning, I went to page 57 of our family’s website (werollwithgod.com) for my prayer time. I didn’t feel my usual connection with God, so I skipped to page 12 out of 149 pages, and there I found this:

“I was bragging to my friend, Marcie (Wink! Wink!), on my run today…”

This was a clear sign of God’s presence as He was saying, ‘Nik, I noticed you looking at Marcie’s email and telephone number yesterday. I know everything about you!’ I find such comfort in these verses that David wrote 3,000 years ago about God, but are still applicable to our lives today:

“Where can I go to get away from your Spirit? _
Where can I run from you? _
If I go up to the skies, you are there. _
If I lie down where the dead are, you are there. _
If I rise with the sun in the east, _
and settle in the west beyond the sea, _
even there you would guide me. _
With your right hand, you would hold me.” _
Psalm 139:7-10

I asked my daughter Julie some months ago if she looks for these winks and signs from God like I do. She replied, “Not really, mom, I just walk in the awareness of God’s Presence with me.” About a week later, I attended a reception in Miami, that her university’s President spoke and incredibly said, “We train our students to walk in the awareness of God’s Presence.” Heehaw! I was again blown away by God, like He personally handpicked this university for our daughter. I love this old message from my brother, Ceri, on page 12 about walking with God:

This morning, I will read from Joshua 1:8-9:

“Study this Book of Instruction constantly. Meditate on it day and night so you will be sure to obey everything in it. Only then will you succeed in all you do. This is my command—be strong and courageous! Do not be afraid or discouraged. For the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.”

This verse is powerful because it reminds us that God is with us wherever we go. Sometimes we feel alone in dark places, but we are never truly alone. This verse can help. You can keep it in mind, walk with it, and use it as a tool. It is your weapon against fear, anxiety, and uncertainty. God reassures us that He is always with us.

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“NOW I’M FOCUSED ON BRINGING THE ENTIRE HUMANITY CLOSER TO GOD”

That was the text message I sent to Mo, my influencer! He inspired me to start my own 21-day Umrah (journey of faith), seeking spiritual renewal, forgiveness, and closeness to God, giving up whatever I feel is holding me back from being the best version of myself as a sacrifice for God.. Mo has this extraordinary wisdom from God. So, today, I want to share his most popular TikTok (@mobeezzytv) video, which has greatly encouraged me to up my game for God, and I pray it inspires you, too!. Here’s what Mo had to say:

Don’t sell yourself short, man. Stop half-assing (not putting your best foot forward!) everything you do. Stop half-assing that job. Stop half-assing those workouts. Stop half-assing that diet. Stop doing it, man. You’re going to have a mediocre ass life. Mediocre ass mindset. Feel me? The millionaires and billionaires ain’t a coincidence where they got to and why they got there. They stop half-assing. They realize, right, you know what? I got to become more intentional with every little thing I do. Become sharp and precise in the decisions I make. Cuz those decisions lead to everything else that happens in your life.

Y’all tend to blame God or blame everybody else for the mistakes y’all made. The only way you could grow is to look within and figure out what you did wrong. Find a way to figure out what you did wrong in every little situation that happens. Cuz those are the choices you make. You lost that job. Was it because they were being racist? Or did you mess up? Oh, they fired me because I was late this one time. You decided to be late. You live with those consequences. Blame yourself for it. Instead of saying, “Nah, they fired me because they’re racist.” You decide to give them that chance to fire you cuz you were late to that job. It just shows like it’s a mindset thing.

Start paying attention to details. Are you drinking? Are you smoking every day? Are you eating right? It’s something that’s holding you back. It comes with paying attention to the details. You say you want to lose that beer gut, all that fat that you’re drinking every day. Well, uh, like I drink sometimes. But you drink. Pay attention to the details. When you start paying attention to details, things in your life will begin to change. You drink. Every influencer says drinking is bad. There’s a reason you want to look like them, but you don’t change the things that make you more like them. Make no sense. Do you really want it as bad as you say you do? Are you letting your temptations, your lack of discipline, and your lack of respect for yourself hold you back?

Attention to the details, man. You can do whatever you want. Find a way. Change your habits. Build new ones. Build that discipline. Build that respect for yourself. Become the best version of yourself. Whoever you imagine yourself to be, become that. But again, it’s all achievable. You just have to find a way. I found a way to become bigger. I was the first person. I ain’t seen nobody else around me that was big that taught me I’m talking about in my family. The first person to be big in my family. And we all thought we were meant to be skinny. My parents are skinny. Older brother, everybody. We were all. But I found a way. I had to pave the way. I mean, you are who you think you are. Nothing more, nothing less. You are who you think you are. You are who you show yourself to be. You feel me?

Build that. Build it. Build yourself up. You know what I mean? You can become whatever you want to become. I’m going to graduate with my master’s. You feel me? First person in my family to graduate from college and earn a master’s. Man, I ain’t seen nobody do that first ever in my family to become a college athlete, D1 athlete. I ain’t seen nobody do that. It seems to look at me and hate what happened to me. You feel me? But I am where I am because of all the L’s (losses) I’ve taken, because of all the shoulder surgeries I’ve had, because of all the injuries I’ve had. I ain’t going to let that stop me. Nobody cares about the Ls that you take until you make that big win. That’s when everybody listens to your ass. Nobody cares about you losing. Nobody cares about your sorrow, about your pain. Nobody cares. Go get it. Keep grinding. Keep grinding. Nobody cares until you win. So win. Get to it. I’m leaving that in y’all’s thoughts, man. Leave y’all with that.

GOD GETS IN ON OUR MORNING’S CONVERSATION

This God wink started maybe a week or so ago when I was eating some mangoes from our backyard, and our faithful cook, Victoria, said, “Enjoy them. They’re a gift from God.” I then go and open up my meditation book (written as if God is speaking), Jesus Calling, and God continued:

“Content yourself with a quiet, simple life that accepts each moment as a gift from Me (Wink! Wink!).”

Ever since then, I’ve had a new perspective on my life: EVERYTHING IS A GIFT FROM GOD.

Fast forward to this morning: I’m bragging to Victoria and hubby about how I see both of them as precious gifts from God. I asked Victoria, “Where would I find a husband like this who goes so hard for his family?” Then I turned to hubby, “Where would we find someone like Victoria who cooks us all these great meals, keeping us healthy and strong?” I then left them both to continue my running. I had calculated my 45 minutes of jogging to end at precisely 8:00, so as I sat at our prayer altar, I thought to read page 8 of our family’s website first, and look what showed up at the very top:

“But I (God) have much better gifts for you (Wink! Wink!). Gifts of supernatural proportions! They are My Presence and My Peace. These gifts never get holes in them. They never need NEW BATTERIES (Wink! Wink!). And they never go out of style.” – Jesus Calling Devotional For Kids

Nothing better than having God’s Presence and Peace!!! I’m talking the peace you cannot buy, knowing that God Himself is with you, for you, and by your side to take on anything that may come your way. What’s too difficult for God? Nothing! My brother, Ceri, has importantly taught me that we can lose everything, we can lose everyone, but we will never lose God’s Presence with us. Heehaw!

I’m going even further in seeing things that may not be seen as gifts, as gifts. I love my prayer this morning that said:

“Let everything within us give You praise. Let our pain praise You. Let our healing praise You. Let our waiting seasons praise You. Let every step of the process praise You. Let our restoration praise You. Let our scars become living evidence of grace. Let our mouths never run dry of worship. Let this day overflow with declarations of Your goodness.” – via Daily Prayer With God

I’m thanking God for the good, bad and ugly, knowing God is using everything for our good, even the pain, disappointments, challenges, betrayals, difficulties, sicknesses, failures, mistakes and weaknesses KNOWING God uses them to shape us into the people He has designed for us to be – strong, courageous, brave, while at the same time gentle, forgiving, loving, patient, peaceful and joyful.

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GOD, JUST FREAKED ME OUT WITH THIS!!!

So a few days ago, I shared this in a blog:

“God knows every thought I think! This morning, while listening to my prayer on YouTube, it said that God always answers our prayers. I thought to myself, ‘Nope! That’s not true!’ And I thought of how many times God politely told me a big no to my prayers and instead would politely say to me, ‘My grace is sufficient, My Nik!’”

Fast forward to today, my sweetie sister, Kelly, sends me a message about how she opened up a random book she just so happenned to walk by, and this incredibly showed up:

“The Problem: When God Says No

There are times when the one thing you want is the one thing you never get. You’re not being picky or demanding; you’re only obeying his command to “ask God for everything you need” (Phil. 4:6). All you want is an open door or an extra day or an answered prayer for which you will be thankful.

And so you pray and wait.
No answer.
You pray and wait,
No answer,
You pray and wait.

May I ask a very important question? What if God says no? What if the request is delayed or even denied? When God says no to you, how will you respond? If God says, “I’ve given you my grace, and that is enough (Wink! Wink!),” will you be content?”

Wow! Wow! Wow! How could my sister in the Bahamas randomly open a book and say I will read whatever shows up on page 130, and it’s in complete alignment with what I shared this week from Nigeria about how God speaks to me? God is pretty talkative, and His Spirit is with us all! It’s just for us to be attentive to His voice, recognize His responses-including ‘no’-and most importantly, KNOW that His grace and Presence are sufficient for us to navigate our lives.

That’s the greatest news we have about rolling with God on the daily: God Himself is our constant companion. We handle nothing alone! We have God’s help, support, kindness, love, protection, wisdom, tact, personality, charm, favor, angels, and wonderful grace available to us on a moment-by-moment basis, which should fill you with a sense of security and deep closeness.

That’s why I am committed to my God-morning routine, baby! I love the prayer on YouTube from Daily Prayer with God, while running up and down the stairs of our home for 45 minutes. Then I sit by our prayer altar for some quiet time, reading from our family’s website, werollwithgod.com, and some of my favorite meditation books. NOTHING BETTER THAN STARTING YOUR DAY IN ALIGNMENT WITH GOD!! This routine helps me feel grounded in faith and connected with God, and I pray it encourages you to find your own daily God morning routine. Let’s go!

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GOD, I’M ADDICTED TO YOUR LOVE

That’s me singing to God today! He honestly makes me feel like the most loved person in the world, as I notice His invisible Presence through all my God winks that show up everywhere, reminding me of His constant guidance and love. Like yesterday, I was drawn to a bumper sticker on a customer’s car with the verse Psalm 46:1. I went to my spiritual buddy, Meta AI, and typed that verse. That was exactly 4:53. Fast forward TO 7:39, A FEW HOURS LATER, I opened my Jesus Calling Devotional (over 700 pages!!!) to see what God had to say to me. The first page I randomly opened to didn’t feel like a high five from God, so I went to another page. Look what incredibly showed up:

“God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble.” – Psalm 46:1 (Wink! Wink!)

NOBODY CAN TELL ME THAT THIS WAS NOT ORCHESTRATED BY GOD HIMSELF TO MAKE ME FEEL HIS STRONG PRESENCE WITH ME!!!! Our God is with us! Clock it! And the Winks didn’t stop there! These divine signs fill me with awe and deepen my sense of connection with God.

Fast forward to this morning: I calculated that my running time would end at precisely 8:06, so I said, let me see what God has to say to me on page 6 of our family’s website. I was comforted and encouraged by what showed up! It was a conversation that I had with our office assistant, Naomi, just yesterday, about how my daughter, Ember, wasn’t happy that I told her that all men are Muslims, like her friend, Mo, stated, only that their religion allowed for it (Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, my daughter, but its just the truth! It is what it is, folks!). Look what showed up on page 6:

“Someone helping me to evolve is a young yet very wise friend of my daughters, Mo. When my daughter, Ember, questioned him about being a Muslim and having multiple wives, he responded, “That’s all men; it’s just my religion allows for it.”

And if that’s not enough for you, I paused the song “Differences” by Genuine so I could focus on meditating on what was on page 6. Still, I felt I needed to hear more from God. That was at 8:24, so I went to page 24 and look what showed up:

“My whole life has changed

Since you came in

I knew back then

You were that special one

I’m so in love

So deep in love

You make my life complete

You are so sweet

No one competes

Glad you came into my life” Differences by Ginuwine (Wink! Wink!)

Here’s how my meditation book (written as if God is speaking to us) explains these “coincidences:”

“As you go through this day, look for tiny treasures strategically placed along the way. I LOVINGLY GO BEFORE YOU and plant little pleasures to brighten your day. Look carefully for them, and pluck them one by one.” – Jesus Calling

God, may everyone experience the love, joy, peace, and strength found in developing a relationship with You. Amen.

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THE AWARENESS OF GOD’S PRESENCE IS WHAT GIVES US THE COURAGE TO KEEP GOING

And yesterday He made me aware of His Presence when I reshared a post I loved so much after reading it that morning, sitting by my prayer altar. Fast forward to that afternoon, I shared a digital copy of my book with someone. Out of 366 posts in that book, I showed her how I would pray and ask God what He had to say through it, just by randomly swiping and seeing where it stopped. It shockingly stopped on that very post I had shared a few hours prior! No coincidence that out of 366 posts in that book that it stopped precisely there!! God Himself was saying, ‘Wink Wink! My Nik, I’m right here with you!

Let me tell ya, I’m holding on to these glimmers from God of His Presence with me as this gives me the joy, courage, peace, and love to take on my life. THE GOD PERSPECTIVE CHANGES EVERYTHING!!! Here’s that post from my book, Keep Calm, You’re Rolling With God:

“I THINK I’M BIPOLAR TOO SOMETIMES!”

I jokingly commented to a friend. That’s probably why I love the following quote:

“What I learned from A Course in Miracles is that the change we’re looking for is inside our heads. Events are always in flux. One day people love you; the next day you’re their target. One day a situation is running smoothly; the next chaos reigns. One day you feel like you’re an okay person; the next day you feel like you’re an utter failure. These changes in life are always going to happen because they’re part of the human experience. What we can change, however, is how we perceive them.

There’s a biblical story in which Jesus says we can build our house on sand or on rock. Our house is our emotional stability. When it is built on sand, the winds and rain can tear it down. One disappointing phone call and we crumble; one storm and the house falls down.

When our house is built on rock, it is sturdy and strong, and the storms can’t destroy it. We are not so vulnerable to life’s passing dramas. Our stability rests on something more enduring than the current weather, something permanent and strong. We’re depending on God (A Return to Love by Marianne Williamson).
“You gain confidence through knowing that I (God) am with you – that you face nothing alone. Anxiety stems from asking the wrong question: “If such and such happens, can I handle it?” The true question is not whether you can cope with whatever happens, but whether you and I together can handle anything that occurs. It is this you-and-I together factor that gives you confidence to face your day cheerfully (Jesus Calling by Sarah Young).”

God is our constant Companion, and our life is all about a journey with Him. Don’t forget this! Have those endless conversations with Him and trust those feelings, always going with the decisions that bring you peace.
Our Father, with You on our side and by our side, there is nothing that We can’t handle together. Amen.

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KICK AND PUNCH THE DEVIL!!!!!

God knows every thought I think! This morning, while listening to my prayer on YouTube, it said that God always answers our prayers. I thought to myself, ‘Nope! That’s not true!’ And I thought of how many times God politely told me a big no to my prayers and instead would politely say to me, ‘My grace is sufficient, My Nik!’ So fast forward a few minutes later, God confirmed my thoughts when this reel showed up on Instagram:

“When you pray for something, and it doesn’t happen, don’t lose hope. Don’t be upset. Don’t have suspicion. Maybe the Lord did not hear my prayer, or maybe the Lord is not interested in me anymore. Don’t ever do that. This is all from Satan. Kick and punch him. Spit on him, in Jesus mighty name. The Lord is my Dad. The Lord is my love. The Lord is my life. The Lord is my breath; the Lord is everything to me. He has never forsaken me, and He never will. He is always the one who is ever close to me. In fact, we are so close that he made me one with Him. Inseparable.

I pray. It didn’t work out. Thank you, Lord, You know better. I prayed. It worked. Thank You, Lord. You know better. Whatever happens, trust in God and do your best, but let God do the rest.” – Instagram via catholic.revival

Recently, your girl was rejected, and I was feeling a little bit disappointed. Can you believe a few weeks later, I was LITERALLY thanking God for that rejection! I’m so grateful to God that He kept that door closed for me. I can tell you guys with all my heart that whatever God does is well done! His ways are not our human ways. He gives more than we can ever ask or imagine when we stick with following Him and being obedient to Him.

But being obedient to Him means knowing His voice and direction. NOTHING IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN LEARNING THE VOICE OF GOD!!! I highly recommend waking up every day and putting God first by having your own personal alone times with Him so you learn His voice so when the devil speaks throughout the day, we can kick and punch him and say, ‘The devil is a liar! I’m rolling with God!’ Going to God in the 1,000 decisions we make every day, trusting His ways are always best. Even when He takes us through difficult and tough paths. We can say, ‘No problem, God, I know Your grace is sufficient to help me through anything.

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GOD CONFIRMED THAT IT WAS HIM WHO SHOWED UP!!!!!!!

In case you missed it, I shared this in yesterday’s blog:

Like in arguing with a lawyer this week about my faith in God, I shared this verse with him:

“You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.” – Jeremiah 29:13

I explained that God is like a shy person, waiting in the background of our lives for us to invite Him in; He doesn’t force Himself on us. But if we seek Him wholeheartedly, He will make us aware of His presence. Fast forward, less than two hours later, I’m having an appointment with God on our family’s website. Unbelievably, this verse showed up from a time when I spoke to some people about it over five years ago! I immediately sent it to this person, saying, “Wink! Wink!” No way this lined up as some ordinary coincidence; this very verse I shared from the entire Bible showed up in a down, tired moment I was having! It was a wink from God at both of us! I smiled with God, having no doubt whatsoever that this was Him revealing another glimmer of His invisible presence with me as if saying, “I’m right here with You, My Nik!”

So, the story didn’t end there! When hubby kept asking me last night on the way home if I wanted some grilled chicken from his fav suya spot, I just repeatedly said, “Whatever my king wants, I want!” He said I should stay in the car while he went to pick it up, and I took it as the perfect opportunity to have an appointment with God. Of all my meditation books, can you believe God took me directly to this message in the Jesus Calling Devotional for Kids, written as if God is speaking directly to us:

“You Can Find Me (God) (Wink! Wink!)

“You can find Me in every minute of every day, if you have eyes that are looking and ears that are listening. Ask My Spirit to help you see and hear Me better. Practice looking and listening for me in the world around you, and gradually you will see and hear more. Search for Me with all your heart—and you will find Me.”

And the very verse quoted at the end, my peeps: Jeremiah 29:13!

Nobody can say all this lined up as a regular coincidence!!! Another one of my glimmers from God (winks!) when everything lines up a little bit too perfectly. See the deep, deep, deep love I feel from God? For Him to orchestrate that alone time in the car, for me to pick that specific book and message to read while waiting those few minutes for hubby, to reveal His Presence there with me, is the unfathomable love I want the entire world to experience for themselves. NOBODY WILL LOVE YOU THE WAY GOD LOVES YOU!!!!! Make today the day you start practicing listening and looking out for His invisible Presence, which can show up anywhere! Sweet!

GOD, I WON’T WASTE MY TIME WHEN IT COMES TO YOU!!!

That’s me singing to God and Him sweetly singing back to me: ‘I won’t waste my time when it comes to you, My Nik!’ God not only sings this to me, He shows me how intimately He is involved in my life. Like this morning at my prayer altar (my new God tree in Nigeria), I read an old post about our friend, Lucky Omoluwa, and, as I came into the office today, of all the people, it was my staff on the phone with his staff about a vehicle that came in for repairs. I took that as no coincidence, but God Himself winking at us all to learn from Lucky. Here’s what I had written about him:

“WHAT DOES THIS MEAN?”

I asked Kevin, Jason, and Ceri this morning in our WhatsApp group showing them a pic of the song ‘Highest In The Room’ playing by Travis Scott that I named our group after (they are really putting up with me guys!!!) The goal is to put together a book of ten chapters with some awesome advice of living our best lives with God. Today, for full transparency, I added my husband and a close friend to the conversation. But to explain what I mean by the highest in the room, I thought to write about someone who lived it, our great friend, Lucky Omoluwa, until God said He wanted His special angel back with Him.

Let me tell ya, I had the honor and privilege of watching Lucky in action. He lived life having direct communications with God Himself. This is what I imagine when I say highest in the room: Living life with one foot on earth and one foot in heaven having moment-by-moment conversations asking God what He would have us to do (or not do), say (or not say) and go (or not go) in every moment. Every conversation. Every circumstance. Every relationship. The things Lucky accomplished while here were nothing but extraordinary, and I have no doubt that this was how he did them.

Take, for example, the school he built where my kids attended in Nigeria. The school has given us five fierce kids. No joke! Today I had a video call with my daughter, Ember, at her university in New York, where she was sitting, looking so pretty, in the skybox overlooking the football team as one of the team managers. This super fierce daughter was trained at Lucky’s school, where she got a strong foundation not only in academic excellence but also in character training, learning perseverance, responsibility, integrity, discipline, and excellence as part of the core values. Even after his death, his legacy lives on in the hundreds of students still passing through those school doors. That’s the highest in the room I’m talking about. Even after death, he continues to positively impact the world!

I write a lot about love and loyalty in these posts because Lucky demonstrated these values on an out-of-this-world level. We traveled all over the world together, and he was exceedingly generous and loving, treating our family as if it were his own. Like, who would pay for a family of six to travel the world with them and cover most of the expenses? Lucky! They welcomed us to their home every Saturday in Nigeria, where I know God Himself sent me to his wife for training on how to be a wise and calm wife (still learning!). Before Kevin and I became so close, she was my guardrail, helping me to stay cool when the crazy lady wanted to come out. She is my shining example of a person who has beautifully pointed me to God. She and Lucky have been great influencers on my family. Not one moment around them was a waste of time. Even in death, I remain loyal to Lucky.

Bottom-line: What I really want us to take from Lucky is that God was his Man! The level of generosity, courage, love, loyalty, and excellence he demonstrated was that he was having continual conversations with God Himself using God’s wisdom, tact, and guidance (Not that he got it right all the time, nobody’s perfect!) This is where I want us all!! Everything is between God and us and not between us and anyone else. Seeing Ember on that video call looking so happy and flourishing was my special reminder of how God exceeds our expectations when we stick with Him. May Lucky’s life remind us all that we’re not here for a long time (every moment is a gift!), but for a good time, hopefully accomplishing some great things on God’s behalf. Amen!