That was me on my morning run with Him. I was happy, dancing, singing, and thanking God for helping to get rid of the negative cloud that has been following your girl here around. No shame in my game, I cried out to God, ‘HELP ME!’ and as usual, He showed up, and it is …
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“YOU SHOULD SEE A THERAPIST”
Someone suggested to me yesterday. But let me tell you, I have the ULTIMATE THERAPIST: GOD. He has been my Wonderful Counselor who has guided my life to a lovely place, no smoking, drugs or alcohol needed. Thank you very much! It’s not always pretty, though, and there are some tricky things I have to …
God is my Valentine Every Day!
“NIK, YOU NEED A NEW WARDROBE”
Hehehe! That was the comment I got from a sweetie after she watched one of my videos. But as I explained to her, ‘tis the season for hard work! My new attire will be some uniform shirts with our company’s name and logo embroidered on them. Your girl here is in hustle mode, baby, and …
“THE MORE YOU HURT ME, THE LESS I CRY” Who would’ve have thought that getting hurt could be a good thing? It has for me! In fact, I use all the negatives that come my way – the failures, mistakes, bitterness, resentments, disappointments, aggravations, sadness, hurt, pain, sickness, feelings of loneliness and hopelessness – to …
I’M NOT ENJOYING YOU; I’M ENDURING YOU!!! That was me joking with my hubby the other day! This marriage thing is no joke! But the great news is that God Himself is intimately involved in every aspect of our lives and He has become my wonderful Relationship Counselor. And His advice has led me on …
NIKKI, WHAT’S THE PROBLEM HERE?
I was so upset at myself for all the negative thinking that got the best of me on Saturday. Despite all the beating my head with a stick to focus on all the HUGE positives in my life, I stayed stuck on THINKING THE WRONG THINGS. And let me tell ya, when your mind is …
“YOU PRESENTED HIM AS A HORRIBLE PERSON…”
“…You don’t even seem to realize you did this. Nobody is going to admire a man who insults his wife at a party. If you want people to admire your husband, you need to tell a different story about him.” I LOVE THIS COMMENT because I’m going to use it to be very REAL with …
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“NIKKI, WHAT ARE YOU EATING???”
This was my hubby SCREAMING at his FAT wife from across the room at a party some years ago. Can you believe this was one of those life-changing moments when I decided to work on myself seriously? The then overweight, insecure, overly emotional, unhappy, and unhealthy Nik, used this HUMILIATION as fuel to become BETTER. …
“MOMMY, WHY DID DADDY MAKE YOU CRY?”
That was the crucial question one of these beautiful daughters asked me years ago after I had an emotional breakdown in front of them when my husband fussed me out about my weight one Sunday I will never forget. That was my wake up call. Nik, are you going to let your daughters see you …