“WHAT DO YOU SAY TO YOURSELF WHEN YOU GO NEGATIVE?

”Wow! What an excellent question from my Nike Running Club’s Coach Bennet on my morning run with God. Perfect question for the crazy lady over here! In fact, I’m taking this as a question from God Himself because we all can be our own worst enemies when we let these negative thoughts bring us down. …

“NIK, YOU NEED A NEW WARDROBE”

Hehehe! That was the comment I got from a sweetie after she watched one of my videos. But as I explained to her, ‘tis the season for hard work! My new attire will be some uniform shirts with our company’s name and logo embroidered on them. Your girl here is in hustle mode, baby, and …

I’M THANKFUL FOR ALL THE “BAD” IN MY LIFE

The hurts, rejections, challenges, difficulties, disappointments, insecurities, frustrations, evil, awful and all the painful stuff that have come my way. These so called “bad” were exactly what I needed to become God’s girl. And now that I’m here, feeling sooooo close to Him, I’m sincerely thankful for them all. “But as for you, you meant …

“HOW DO YOU MENTALLY DEAL WITH TOUGH SITUATIONS?”

Wow! That was the excellent question from a sweetie pie God has sent into my life! Here’s how: God is my GREATEST FRIEND EVER! Anything I’m concerned about, He’s concerned about, let me tell ya. And He lovingly finds all sorts of ways to communicate with me (He’s quite talkative once you get to know …

“THE MORE YOU HURT ME, THE LESS I CRY” Who would’ve have thought that getting hurt could be a good thing? It has for me! In fact, I use all the negatives that come my way – the failures, mistakes, bitterness, resentments, disappointments, aggravations, sadness, hurt, pain, sickness, feelings of loneliness and hopelessness – to …

“MOMMY, WHY DID DADDY MAKE YOU CRY?”

That was the crucial question one of these beautiful daughters asked me years ago after I had an emotional breakdown in front of them when my husband fussed me out about my weight one Sunday I will never forget. That was my wake up call. Nik, are you going to let your daughters see you …