“MOMMY, WHY DID DADDY MAKE YOU CRY?”

That was the crucial question one of these beautiful daughters asked me years ago after I had an emotional breakdown in front of them when my husband fussed me out about my weight one Sunday I will never forget. That was my wake up call. Nik, are you going to let your daughters see you …

“I USED TO WALK AROUND WITH MY HEAD TO THE GROUND HATING MYSELF”

“…now I hold my head super high with TOO MUCH love for myself!!!” GLORY BE TO GOD!!!HERE’S THE DEAL:The world has its way of keeping us down and depressed. Everyone focuses on our negatives, our mistakes, and failures, but in my appointments with God, He switches the scripts. He reminds me that I’m unconditionally loved …

‘NIK, YOU’VE CERTAINLY COME A LONG WAY, BABY’

That was me yesterday reading this from an old post I had shared two years ago: “Like I was telling this person yesterday, my wilderness experience showed me there were too many things getting between me and God from my natural hair fixation, my weight frustrations, constant Facebook check-ins, obsessing over how to control other …

“YOU’RE DIFFERENT” (REPOST)

Someone commented to me yesterday. They’ve noticed all the changes in me since returning from my “wilderness experience” of being away from Nigeria for three months without kids, hubby and close friends.Honestly, I feel different. I’m happier, calmer, not worried about anything, not so distracted and truly feeling like I’m God’s girl. And of course, …

EVERY DISAPPOINTMENT IS A BLESSING FROM GOD HIMSELF

Forget getting bitter- get BETTER AND CLOSER TO GOD!!! That’s the wisdom I’m certainly learning from Him. People’s ways may be unfair with us, but let me tell ya, God’s ways are more than fair. In every moment He’s doing like 10,000 things for us that we’re unaware of. So, I take my place firmly …