SOMETIMES YOU WILL HAVE TO WALK THROUGH SOME DUCK POOP!

That’s God having fun with me when I went for my noontime appointment with Him. What I love most about former President Trump is that he taught me, “It is what it is!” There will be some messy, challenging, complex, tricky, frustrating, overwhelming stuff we will face – it is what it is – but all my vlogs and blogs aim to teach you how to deal with them from the Almighty God’s perspective. Wink! Wink! We’re not alone, my peeps, WE GOT GOD AND HE GOT US!!!

Like yesterday, when a difficult situation came up, your girl had to come out swinging like Tiger Woods’s wife – NO, I’M NOT TAKING THIS BS ANY LONGER, PERIOD! THERE IS A CERTAIN THING CALLED RESPECT!!! Don’t let the cute face and pleasant smile fool ya! That was all based on my conversation with God that’s going on all day in my head. The next day the message was completely different, and the softer Nik needed to return. So all day, 24/7, I want us there with God, seeking His input on every situation.

I loved this comment today from a long-time Facebook friend:

“You have such a beautiful Soul. You’re beautiful on the inside and out. You are also hurting. I’ve heard you say many times people tell you you’re always talking about God and how u need to have faith. You are the type of woman that wants and need that physical, spiritual, n mental support from your twin flame 24/7 – 365. You come across as not having faith because you’re hurting. You need, want n deserve hubby to be right there by your side.”

I replied, “No, I needed to know that God is always beside me. That’s the big lesson in all the hurts.” And my message to us all – people will hurt us, disappoint us, and forsake us, but every time I get hurt, I run to God, and HE IS ALWAYS THERE TO WRAP HIS ARMS AROUND ME AND LET ME KNOW THAT EVERYTHING WILL BE ALRIGHT. That’s the sweetness of God I want the entire world to feel with me. God tells me that sometimes He doesn’t mind me having the worst days, and I don’t mind either. Those difficult days took me closer to Him. (HUGE SMILE)

And from God’s perspective, I look at situations lots clearer. Nik, did they remove one strand of hair from your head? Nik, look where you are – you have a gorgeous life; enjoy it! So, if that means taking my 10,000 punches (the hurts) for God, I say no problem because God honestly EXCEEDS my expectations with the love and attention He shows me.

I’m well taken care of by God and hubby! Those hurts from hubby, I take them too because of the person he is. I honestly call him better than best hubby! Nobody’s perfect! So if he messes up, I forgive him. I love him unconditionally because of his track record of going overboard in his responsibilities as a husband and dad – I remain loyal, boo! But sometimes I must check him, though, and say, “Buddy, this is going a little bit too far! Check yourself before you wreck yourself!

BUT MOST IMPORTANTLY, I WILL NEVER GIVE UP ON HIM AND OUR MARRIAGE, so help me, God. I’m the super glue that keeps the family together (my role from God!) Badass wifey here! Our sticking together and fighting for our families is crucial to Him. But every situation is different, and that’s where constant and continual conversations with God come in! Make sure you are having your appointments with Him, reading or listening to anything spiritual, to learn His voice and direction for your life.