THE PRAYER THAT HAS CHANGED MY LIFE:

God, I want a CLOSER walk with You. Amen. I think I said it back in 2010 or so, and to see how God has changed me from a sad, anxious, bitter, unforgiving, fretful, overweight, starving for love, crazy lady into a happy, loving, forgiving, peaceful and fearless warrior, has been nothing short of a …

DON’T GET IT TWISTED, I’M BRAGGING ABOUT GOD, NOT MYSELF!

And how HE has beautifully led me to a VERY HAPPY LIFE!!! But, WE (me and God) want YOU along with us—Hey, I don’t want to be this joyful by myself! Like between God and my hubby, they have me spoilt! This morning, seeing some mangoes on our kitchen counter from yesterday, I didn’t want …

A TOAST TO GOD

Instead of throwing out some old smoothie, I asked my cook, Victoria, to place it in a glass for me. She, very surprisingly, put it in a champagne glass. It was the very one I would use to have a nightly drink with my hubby in my attempts to dumb all the UGLY thoughts I …

‘GOD, HELP ME TO NOT TURN INTO THE CRAZY LADY TODAY!!!’

Let me tell ya, the mad lady wants to come out sometimes, and I must QUICKLY remind myself that I’m to be the Nikki God is calling me to be: self-controlled, disciplined, calm, mannerly, merciful, loving and respectful. BUT IT AIN’T EASY! So, for me, I’m asking Him to help me remove anything from my …

‘NIK, YOU’RE BECOMING QUITE LAZY THESE DAYS’

That’s the message I seem to be picking up from God. I told ya’ll, He is pretty talkative once you get to know Him! It started with my housekeeper and cook leaving us over the holidays. Let me tell ya, your girl over here was NOT HAPPY that I would have to spend the “holiday” …

“LET ME KNOW IF YOU GOT THE EMAIL”

That was me to a friend yesterday. I spent some time helping her out, and I was just thinking about how she has been so wonderful to me that I want to be an even better friend to her. Then, it got me thinking about my relationship with God? ISN’T EVERYTHING AND EVERYONE IN MY …

“YOU’VE ALREADY BEGAN LEAVING YOUR LEGACY”

I said to this beautiful daughter, Ember, standing next to me. She was inaugurated recently as the FIRST head girl of a school that opened for the very FIRST time on her birthday, for the very FIRST year we relocated to Nigeria. My testimony is that God built this school especially for us, and I’m …

WHAT’S THE BIGGEST LESSON YOU’VE LEARNED FROM AN ENEMY?

I asked my family at our Christmas Day Brunch recently. Julie said she had learned from a girl at school who’s always very insulting to her friends to be NICE. I said I had learned that what others think and say about me is really NONE of my business. And our eleven-year-old son, Emmie, surprised …

“I’M JUST TRYING TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE”

That was me to my daughters yesterday! I turned into crazy mom to get them to clean their rooms and study. “It’s about having discipline!” is what I told them. And you don’t go far in life without discipline! The hardest thing we have to do is to conquer ourselves and be the people we …