“ENJOY THEM!” (REPOST)
This was a needed reminder in regards to spending the summer with my kids from Carlos, another one of our God hook-ups. Ever since he wrote that in an email, I’ve changed my perspective from that I have to take care of them myself this summer, to I get to take care of them.
We had the best day together, pretty much in our kitchen waiting for an appliance technician to show up. We cooked, made smoothies, cleaned, played, and laughed. After the tech left, I then took them swimming and by the time I gave them dinner and cleaned up I was super tired. Emmie came and lied next to me in bed, and it was the sweetest thing because I always tell him he only comes to see me when he wants something.
And speaking of enjoying them, I especially enjoy my little, then three-year-old, Joshie! “Why can’t everyone be like you?” is what I asked him one day taking out the trash together. He’s my little sweetie pie! If everyone in my life were like Joshie, life would be super great! He always wants to help, always asking, “How may I serve?” in his little three-year-old way. If he ever does anything that I have to correct him about, no arguments, he says, “Sorry, mommy!” He’s always happy and he’s forever kissing me and hugging me. And he’s also so grateful. While driving one day, out of the blue, like a little man, he said, “Thank you, mom!”
How do people experience being around you? Are you a happy person to be around, humble (quick to admit when you’re wrong), grateful, asking “How may I serve?” instead of, “What’s in it for me?” Just asking! The world needs more Joshies, don’t you think?
Let’s learn to enjoy everyone in our lives. I spoke to my mother in-law for the longest over the phone, and I couldn’t believe when she told me that I’ve been the perfect mother! Is this from the same person I’ve had so many arguments with in regards to how I was raising my kids? In all my years of life, I can say I’ve learned that nobody’s perfect.
Dear God, may we lighten up, be quick to forgive and enjoy everyone in our lives. Amen.
KEEP CALM—YOU’RE ROLLING WITH GOD